Song Of The Prettybird Poem

The Madonna–whore complex is a concept starting time coined by Sigmund Freud. It represents the dichotomy of the Madonna—a wholly virtuous, pure, and chaste woman—and the whore—a promiscuous, seductive, and degraded woman. The event with this understanding of female sexuality lies in its polarization and assumptions.

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As I grow upward, I think I see everything too clearly. Sure older men look like sexual predators and women in their forties/fifties appear in a multitude of shades, likewise complicated to differentiate their sadness and their fulfillment. What'due south the worse aspect of living as an adolescent in the digital historic period? It's learning everything too apace; you're exposed to corruption and evil corruption, a sponge with no choice simply to absorb the dirt and grime with the water.

The Madonna-whore complex was showtime introduced to me past Tiktok (how GenZ of me). On the surface, I couldn't empathise how some men could call back and perceive women similar this, but that presently changed. As the idea of "erotic slut versus virgin innocence" sunk in my head, more and more realizations became bleached with ick (disgust). Comments rating women's bodies and faces, AOC getting replies like "what's your OnlyFans," and the idiotic "make me a sandwich" remarks all seemed to seep in, and I became so tired of the world effectually me. I feel similar it'south so common for teens these days, to get into these types of pessimistic moods where nothing feels right and the earth outside your window frame is hell itself. My girlfriends and I were talking about how we all felt like we lost this specific bundle of happiness later on the pandemic, but hey, information technology was probably because we matured.

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Coming back from my tangent, the Madonna-whore circuitous can exist seen virtually everywhere, you merely have to look harder. It's when girls slut-shame other girls for talking to a lot of guys, it's dress codes, it'south men saying they similar "tight pussies," it'south men wanting little girls that haven't yet lost their virginity, it'southward the whole ageplay audience, it'south girls on social media wishing they were 17 forever, and sadly, information technology's the anorexic-and-proud Lana Del Rey well-nigh-cult of teenage girls that desperately desire to exist desired for the attention and the artful . Just like how racism is systematic, sexism and misogyny are ingrained and taught from a young age. I don't know how it happened, just this club nosotros alive in has never been kind to united states of america.

As Daisy Buchanan says in The Great Gatsby :

"I promise she'll be a fool, that's the best matter a girl can exist in this earth, a cute trivial fool."

Additionally, this is my impression of Society to girls: "Y'all must be pretty! Yous are of no worth if yous are not conventionally attractive! You will die solitary with your cats or exist morbidly obese considering you volition eat your bug abroad like an evil stepmother in a Disney princess moving-picture show! You are born to midweek and produce the next generation of offspring, and so you will rot away because the men will expect to the new, bouncy twenty-somethings for sexual prowess!

Now for yet another Gone Girl suspension because Gillian Flynn is my goddess, my never-ending clause, my exemplar:

As per mutual noesis, Haruki Murakami is a confusing fellow. Sometimes I recall he's pro-women and other times he's a total-blown female hater, like those modern-historic period Reddit incel trolls… But specifically, Men Without Women truly highlighted his raw inner conflicts with loneliness and aging with a meaning other. He tackles the masculine point of view in these short stories, and it was so interesting to accept a nosedive into unlike men'south perceptions of women in their life. Here's a quote from Murakami's Men Without Women :

Non that she gave me an erection. She far surpassed any w wind. And not simply the west wind. She was then spectacular that she made wind coming from all directions simply vanish. In the face of such an amazing girl how could I fifty-fifty think of having a sordid hard-on?

What rubs me the wrong style (pun intended), is how men can't seem to get that sexuality and fornication is non nasty to practise to someone you love. And that right in that location is the Madonna-whore complex simplified. Information technology'south men's underlying sinful perception of sex activity that makes them view the pure, naive, innocently pliant, and submissive girls equally Madonnas and the confident, sexually educated, perceptive, and brilliant older women as the whores. In 21st-century terms, it's shy e-daughter versus bold temptress.

Similarly, from 34st.com:

To men, the Madonna is the only type of woman who is worthy of respect and romantic pursuit. While men are able to love women that they categorize every bit Madonnas, this comes along with the subsequent denigration and demonization of women who are deemed whores or sluts. Fifty-fifty if a woman who was once regarded every bit a Madonna begins to express sexuality, she becomes degraded and is moved to the category of whore. Men are able to love women they catalog every bit Madonnas because of the subsequent denigration and shaming of women labelled whores or sluts.

I have no determination to this depressing topic, so I will shut this with a pretty bow, aka a superb poem snippet of "Song Of The Prettybird" by Shay Alexi Stewart:

                - Wet dreams swollen chest fluff fest  To pretty poke bird fun  To pretty poke fun bird  To pretty bird bird pretty bird bird pretty pretty pretty  Too busy fantasizing to poke fun at permanently preening pretty bird                                My vanity is insanity unless information technology helps get you off                                                  What a care for hosting eyes between my thighs  They will spend equal time begging to share bed with me  Condemning mediocrity  How does i reach complexity when all she was always taught to exist was basic Pigeon man wants pretty bird to pretty bird  Until pretty bird fulfills ideas of prettiness  And so shes too pretty pretty bird bird paralyzing and preened    Wait at my long clean coat  At my pretty pretty bid pretty pink legs  Rails me cantankerous heaven highway  Have a movie I beg you lot  Have a flick pretty bird pretty bird  My left side is my best side  ...   for pigeon men to runway her cross sky highway  but notwithstanding she sang also loud  and so they caged her upwards  for her pretty pretty bird bird long clean glaze  for her pretty pretty bird pretty pinkish legs  and they said sing pretty lady sing  but I forgot how    and then I said  pretty pretty bird bird look at my long clean coat  at my pretty pretty bird pretty pink legs  just they were bored of me   -  And hither'due south                a wonderful recitation                  of the entire poem by Madeline Ford on Tiktok.      All the love to my prettybirds.  <three J